an eternal optimist, still waiting for my fairy-tale ending. i love me some good eats, loud music, laughing until it hurts & dancing until my feet give out. i am a traveling bunny who cant get enough. my dog is the love of my life, as is my boyfriend, New York City.
Being single is difficult like that. We can talk and write about it as much as we want. We can rent movies that profit off of our grief, and commiserate with friends over a bottle of wine. But those brief moments in which we think about the possibility of being alone forever are so quietly devastating. It’s your worst nightmare becoming real for five blocks. This is something Katherine Heigl can’t conjure in her latest movie. These moments aren’t what you talk about at brunch unless you get really wasted and want to have that kind of day. It’s like being single in HD. And then as quickly as it came on, the moment leaves you and you’re back to feeling okay. Maybe the moment will even scare you into not staying home the next night; in which case, the moment has done its job.
—http://thoughtcatalog.com/2011/the-fear-of-ending-up-alone/
“if you’re having sex outside committed relationships, you will have to stop. Why? Because past a certain age, casual sex is like recreational heroin — it doesn’t stay recreational for long”
there’s a lot more where that came from…
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/tracy-mcmillan/why-youre-not-married_b_822088.html
NIGHTNIGHT by DEDDY
